Love Is A Dream - Marriage Is The Alarm Clock

When people say love is blind. I say to them that it is marriage that will restore the sight. Before marriage, opposite sex attracts but in marriage, they repel. Do not go into marriage blindly, those who have so gone are regretting. Do not be forced into it either because if you do, you will equally be forced out. Go into marriage with your two eyes wide open. This is because whatever you do blindly will have problems. Some are already into it for no one told them love is a dream.   

When you dream for instance, sometimes you may see yourself as the head of state, chairman of a big multi- national organisation, in a push car etc before someone knocks on your door and you come back to reality to discover you have been dreaming.

However you can turn your love dream into reality if you will note and do the following: 

Do not rush into love: Love is like a tender plant, it takes time to grow. Somebody may just like you but say he/ she loves. Likeness and love are not the same. Someone can like you if he sees what he wants in you. If there are benefits he thinks he can derive from you but as soon as those things are no more that is the end. But love means despite who and what you are or may turn out to be in future. He will always be there for you.

When you wake up , face life. You do not win a battle by running away from it , those who have woken up to the reality that what they dreamt of was not what they found; I say, take heart because you can still turn that marriage around, only that it will be at a price. The price of patience, endurance forbearance, forgiveness and hope. Do not give up on your marriage no matter what

If Anything Wants To Tamper With Your Destiny, Fight It

Fight alcohol, fight that urge for tobacco, fight bad temper and fight that evil habit in you. If you do not, it can delay your emergence or utterly cut you short in life.  The conscience of a man is the referee of his life. It blows foul  each time there is an infringement. This is the creator’s device to enable each of us put our lives under control. For instance, every corrupt person taking or offering bribe knows that God and man hate lies.

 Every cheat is aware that it is not the right thing to do, every smoker also knows that smoking is dangerous to health. So is every drunkard, criminal, prostitute. The problem with man’s conscience is that it can be silenced and muffled. Many have silenced their conscience and so live as if they have none. Others compromised the truth they once knew and cherished just because others are doing the same. To them, it is if you cannot beat them, join them. So, know that what is wrong is wrong no matter who is doing it or how many people are involved. Majority is not necessarily right.

To  fight whatever wants to tamper with your life; you must be determined. Subdue that enemy: be it human or habit. Do not permit it/him, for whatever you permit stays and whatever you reject goes.