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Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Depression and Capability

Success is not hereditary.People do not get rich because they are men or women but by developing their capabilities.So,whatever you think or looks like you can do must be developed to bring about your success.Task your brain to produce necessary result because brain is not for decoration but for gains.People have a way of explaining the reasons they failed by blaming it on certain perceived disadvantages.Posses I can make it no matter what mentality, because poverty is not genetic and failure is not a skin disease.You are not in lack because you are black.The fact you are a woman and not a man,black not white,educated but not a graduate,from a poor background not from a rich home,in a village not a city are not the reasons you are the way you are today.

Whether you are a man,woman,old,young,Literate,illiterate etc does not make you a nobody but your refusal to developed the capabilities in you.Self development is what gets things done in life.Even the physically challenged said there is ability in disability.You are capable of doing many things.You can be rich,you can be married,you can bear children,you can be a professional,you can own an enterprise and travel all over the world and fulfil your only need to develop your capabilities.For whatever you do not develop will diminish and eventually disappear.This is one of the reasons many suffer in life.They fail to discover what they have ang even when discovered refuse to developed them.

Take Earlier Action To Get Out Of Depression

There is no situation that cannot change if you will work hard and be patient.a situation not challenged will harden up and become a big problem.It is said a problem not solved will become a hill,a hill not removed will become a mountain and a mountain not addressed will become impossible.Do not leave situations till they get out of hand before you start running around for solution.That is what most people do,but know that problems are better solved in their embryo stage.If you allow them to harden,they become more difficult to get rid off.

The more you allow a matter to drag for too long,the more you give your opponents time to stiffen their positions.Procrastinatuion they say is an enemy of progress.For instance,many patients in the hospital would not have gotten to their pitiable stage if they had consulted their doctors on time.Many marriages would not have collapsed if a respected counselor was contacted on time.So,challenged your situation and it will change .Take a decision concerning your situation.You will have to be decisive in life to create a chance for yourself.No one will give you a chance,it is your decision that will create the chance you desire.Do not shy away from taking firm decisions even if they are hard ones.Make sure you apply correct approach to your situation and it will bring a positive result just as the correct tools will get a job done with ease.That situation before you is waiting for a solution.The solution is within the situation,so calm down and look at it very well,solution well emerge.No situation will stand still in the face of serious and continuous efforts.

Overcome Depression By Apppreciating Your strength

Weaknesses and strength are available and attainable. Every one of us is endowed with the two.There is no pecfect human being on earth; we each have our negatives and positives,minuses and pluses,asset and liabilities.There is no one that is strong all the time and happy all the time.I want you to know that it is you who decides what comes up on you most of the time. A lot of people spend time exaggerating their problems and weaknesses without appreciating that they have their areas of prospects and strength too.In life,whatever you exaggerate aggravates.Whatever song you sing is the dance steps you take.There are many reasons people do that and they are:

Desire for sympathy:Do not seek to be pitied,seek to be envied Human beings always look for people to console,sympathise with and pity.know that your neighbour who you
Secretly envy also has many pitiable conditions.The reason is,it won’t help his or her problem rather it reduces his credibility and respect before,stop announcing your problems,for they only hear,console and sympathise without offering you what you need to be out of situation..

Ignorance:people exaggerate their problems out of ignorance.If they secure better knowledge of the situation,they will rise up and profer solutions instead of raising a pity not be ignorant in life,seek to know something about everything you are doing or going through,you will be a better person that way.

Deception:many people are deceivers.They love to deceive others for some temporal gains.That however is unfortunate because when your deception is discovered,you will be treated like a commom criminal.
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