Your lover of many years broke up with you and left you. Now you don't feel like eating anything, love songs make you want to cry and you just lie in the bed all day. If you continue like that, you will get in a depression and your chances of getting back with your ex-lover will be zero.
Your lover didn't fall in love with you because you are a weak and depressed person. I know it's so hard to accept that the relationship is over, but the truth is it may not be over. Often, a break up is important to make us realize the importance of the other person in our lives. If you both have loved each other dearly, the love won't just disappear in a snap.
Everyday we see couples getting back together after having been separate for months. Heck, I once read about one couple who got married 35 years after their break up, now that's love. There is no magic spell that is going to seduce your ex and make him or her come back to you. It's all about how we humans behave.
But before you learn the "tricks" to win back the love, you must first get a hold of yourself and avoid depression at all costs. If you are showing the following signs, then you might be falling into depression and you need to take action immediately:
- sleeping most part of your day
- not feeling hungry
- not feeling like going out
- consuming more than usual sweets and chocolates